Ms. Bikini Universe Pro Heather Messenger shares, "The only person you should ever try to be better than is the one staring back at you in the mirror.

I spent years comparing myself to others until I learned that comparison is the thief of joy. Never allow yourself to say, "I want to be just like her" because 1. You should be focused on being the best you possible, and 2. there is no one out there like you and you are too damn unique and special to ever let that go in order to conform to someone else's image. ?????"